Wow - just listening to the Way of the Master radio - a program contrasting the "feel good" message with the "total depravity" message.
Paul Washer (God bless him!) is the subject of the latter - one thing he sid really resonated with me.
"Lot's of people come to me saying they have a new relationship with God. My response is, "DO you have a new relationship with sin? Because if you don't have a change in your relationship to sin, then you don't really have a relationship with God."